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Catholic Charities and Family Services, Office of Family Life#150; Programs and Current Activities

Office of Family Life#150; Marriage Preparation

Preparation for the Sacrament of Marriage

Including: Engaged Encounter &

Twogether In Love (Couple to Couple)

 

Click here for a brochure about marriage preparation in our Diocese.

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Engaged Encounter is a weekend away with other engaged couples to plan your marriage. It is designed to give couples planning to receive the Sacrament of Marriage the opportunity to dialogue honestly and intensively about their prospective lives together – their strengths and weaknesses, desires, ambitions, goals, their role in the Church, society – in a face-to-face way.  Individuals and couples of all faiths are welcome.  Presented at Immaculata Retreat Center, Willimantic.

Dates for future weekends:

2007: SEPT. 28-30 (Immaculata Retreat Ctr.)

2008: FEB. 15-17, APRIL 18-21, SEPT. 19-21 (Immaculata Retreat Ctr.)

 

 

The weekends are $350 per couple, pre-paid in full ($50 non-refundable in case of cancellation).  This includes two nights lodging and four meals.  Presented at Immaculata Retreat Center, Willimantic.  Deadline for sign-up is the Friday before the weekend (seven days in advance of the weekend.)  You may reschedule for another weekend - if a cancellation is made less than two weeks before the scheduled date.  Money will be returned only if your place on the weekend can be filled by another couple.

For applications, reservations and more information, please call:
Frank and MaryAnne Pendola at 860-536-8665 or e-mail <NorwichEEBooking@comcast.net
or call Sean Feeney of the Office of Family Life at 860-889-8346 x285

ALSO SEE: www.engagedencounter.org/dist1

Twogether In Love Program affords the engaged couple the opportunity of meeting with one married couple, in their home, for four one-hour sessions. Study materials are provided. This program offers a chance to share and discuss on a couple-to-couple basis.

For more information, please call:
The Office of Family Life
Sean Feeney
860-889-8346 x285

Office of Family Life – Natural Family Planning

Effective Family Planning in Accord with Catholic Teaching

Natural Family Planning (or NFP) offers the opportunity for the safest, deepest expression of sexual love.  Natural Family Planning (NFP) is God's natural way to support and consummate married love.

When husbands and wives have serious reasons to space or avoid pregnancies, NFP is the answer.  The truth is, contraception and other artificial means of birth control, by their very nature, restrict the life-giving and love-giving properties of sexual union.  As Christ teaches through the Church and natural law, life and love are truly inseparable.  This is why artificial means of birth control are seriously wrong.

So why haven't more people heard of Natural Family Planning?  NFP is sometimes overlooked by physicians for more expensive and more quickly administered prescriptions!  NFP is very effective, safe and a real marriage builder!  Steve & Lisa Collison coordinate Natural Family Planning in the Diocese of Norwich.  All of our Diocesan instructors bring the teachings and current data on the best method of family planning, Natural Family Planning (NFP), for all engaged and married couples.

Next Scheduled NFP Course:

NFP Classes in Old Saybrook

Workshops in the Southern area of the diocese (You don’t have to be from the southern part of the Diocese to attend.) Hosted by Steve & Lisa Collison, certified as instructors by the Couple to Couple League. They bring the teachings and current data on the best method of family planning, Natural Family Planning (NFP), for all engaged and married couples. The Collisons teach a two-session course in Natural Family Planning

at St. John Church, 161 Main St., Old Saybrook.  Courses are low-cost ($75 with scholarships available), charging only to cover the cost of support materials.  Interested engaged and married couples should contact: Steve and Lisa Collison, 860-399-8265. 

 

NFP Classes in Rockville

Workshops in the North and West regions of the Diocese of Norwich are hosted by Steve & Debra Johnston, certified instructors of the Couple to Couple League. They bring the teachings and current data on the best method of family planning, the Sympto-Thermal Method of Natural Family Planning (NFP) in four-session classes, for all engaged and married couples.  Pre-registration is required.  For information and/or to register, interested engaged and married couples should contact: Steve and Debra Johnston, 860-871-8382

 

NFP Classes in Norwich/Willimantic

Workshops in the North and East regions of the Diocese of Norwich are hosted by Ted & Cindy McMahon, certified instructors of the Couple to Couple League. They bring the teachings and current data on the best method of family planning, the Sympto-Thermal Method of Natural Family Planning (NFP) for all engaged and married couples.  Classes are now being scheduled.  For information, please call the Office of Family Life, 860-889-8346, ext. 285

 

NFP Classes in Pawcatuck/Westerly

Workshops in the Southeastern area of the diocese are hosted by Peter and Lora Brodeur and also Darren and Robin Bleier, Couple to Couple League certified instructors.  They bring the teachings and current data on the best method of family planning, Natural Family Planning (NFP), for all engaged and married couples.  Classes are four monthly sessions from 6:30 - 8:30 PM on Saturday evenings at St. Pius X Church, 44 Elm St., Westerly, R.I.  Call Peter & Lora at 401-596-3443 or Darren & Robin at 401-596-9582 for class details.

 

Comprehensive Video & Brochure Packet

Natural Family Planning: Love Needs A Safe Place

27 minutes packed with information, scientific facts and good sense from

Bishop Cote, Dr. Paul Carpentier, Steve and Lisa Collison and other couples

witnessing to the great gift of Natural Family Planning in their lives.

Available from the Office of Family Life (860) 889-8346, extension 285.

Only $20 and it even comes with a beautiful brochure packet

chock full of resources and pertinent facts.

Natural Family Planning  -

Probably the best "marriage insurance" in the world!!! 

 

NEW DVD ALSO

Introduction to Natural Family Planning, 55 Minutes

Highest quality, Distributed by One More Soul

(Available from this office for $20, 860-889-8346, X285)

 

Links to Natural Family Planning Websites

·         Couple to Couple League at 1-800-745-8252 or http://www.ccli.org/

·         Family of the Americas at http://www.familyplanning.net/

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Office of Family Life – Marriage Support and Enrichment

Marriage Encounter

A program for any married couple who desire a richer, fuller life together.  The Marriage Encounter weekend is designed to deepen and enrich the joys a couple shares together.  Worldwide Marriage Encounter offers a weekend experience designed to give married couples the opportunity to look deeply into their relationship. The emphasis of the Marriage Encounter weekend is on communication between husbands and wives. The weekend provides an environment for couples to spend time together, away from the distractions and tensions of everyday life, while encouraging them to focus on each other and their relationship. There are also groups called Circles that meet once a month for those who have attended a Marriage Encounter weekend.

 

Connecticut Marriage Encounter Weekends for 2007:

July 20-22

September 21-23

November 9-11

For more information about Worldwide Marriage Encounter or to register for an upcoming weekend, please contact John & Bev Maley at 203-364-0836 or bjkmaley@aol.com or visit www.wwmect.org

The Connecticut Marriage Encounter website is: www.wwmect.org (Printable registration forms are available.)

The Worldwide Marriage Encounter website is: http://www.wwme.org/

 

 

Retrouvaille

 

“A LIFELINE FOR TROUBLED MARRIAGES”

 

 

 

                                         Weekend in Hartford, CT: September 14, 2007

Contact Bill and Terri Mason (203) 879-3842

 

 

Follow-up meetings: The first Saturday after the Retrouvaille weekend and is held from 6:00-10:00 PM at St. James Parish, Rocky Hill, Ct.

 

Core Meetings: For those who have already attended a Retrouvaille weekend, meetings are held the second Sunday of every month from 6:00-8:00 PM at St. James Parish, Rocky Hill, Ct..

 

All scheduled weekends and more information are listed at the Retrouvaille website: http://www.retrouvaille.org/

or call: Sean Feeney
The Office of Family Life
860-889-8346 x285, Fax: 860-889-2658

Keep watching this site for updates!

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Office of Family Life – Separation and Divorce Support Groups

Second and Fourth Wednesday Each Month

New London Area Support Group for Separated and Divorced, St. Mary, Mother of the Redeemer Church, 69 Groton Long Point Road, Groton. 7 PM to 8:30 PM in the Rectory.

To register or for information: 860-445-1446

All are welcome at any of the Separation and Divorce Support Groups. Contact: Sean Feeney, 860-889-8346 x285. Fax: 860-889-2658

Keep watching this site for updates!

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Office of Family Life – Grief Intervention and Management

Third Sunday Each Month

Support Group for Bereaved Persons, St. Colman Church, 145 Hubbard St., Middlefield CT, 1:30 PM to 3 PM. Contact Peter Gill at 860-346-8701

 

NOW AVAILABLE: A Guide to Catholic Funerals
CALL (860) 889-8346 OR WRITE TO THIS OFFICE.

There is also a Diocesan Grief Ministry Committee available to help prepare parish volunteers in the areas of aftercare, including bereavement support groups and parish visitors; after funeral receptions, merging a parish ministry to the sick and a parish bereavement ministry, liturgy planning, including ideas on organizing an annual memorial Mass and planning funeral liturgies.

Members are also prepared to share experiences on ministering in the areas of anticipatory grief, sudden death, AIDS, suicide, miscarriages, abortion, death of children and grief associated with raising a disabled child as well as other types of loss not the result of physical death.

THE WORKSHOP, Comfort Those Who Mourn, is offered throughout the diocese for anyone interested in learning more about Bereavement Ministries, for all parish ministers, and for those whose lives have been touched by loss who want to learn more about helping others.

Please contact your parish office for more information or call the Program Coordinator: Peter Gill  860-346-8701

Keep watching this site for updates!

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Office of Family Life – Grief Intervention and Management

The Diocesan Singles Networks are for single adults who wish to enhance their lives spiritually and socially. All single adults – never married, widowed, or divorced are welcome.

Singles Mass: July 1st at St. John Church in Cromwell. Call no later than June 25th for caterer count. Cost $15; make check out to Barbara Bartalotta and mail it to 21 Grove Rd., Cromwell, CT 06416. Barbara  (860) 635-5870

THE NATIONAL WEBSITE FOR CHRISTIAN SINGLES address is http://www.singlecatholics.com/ and you can e-mail them at mailto:atservice@singlecatholics.com

The "Younger" Middletown Single and Single-Again Group

FOR THOSE IN THEIR 20'S THRU 40'S.

 

Meet the second Saturday of the month at 7:00 PM at St. Pius X Church, 310 Westfield St. in Middletown.  This group provides an opportunity for a younger group to plan activities and network with other groups in the region.

 

 

If you are interested or would like further details about this "younger singles" group, contact: Patty Kloo (860) 267-9127, smallmiracles23@sbcglobal.net

 

 Also visit www.stpius-x.org

 

 

The original, “classic” Middletown Singles and Single Again Group

 

meets the fourth Wednesday of each month at 7:00 PM.  Meetings are held at St. John Church, West Street, Cromwell.  Meeting in the Church Hall.  Access to the hall will be from the REAR OF THE CHURCH NEAR THE CHAPEL.  Refreshments, coffee and tea will be served.  All singles, widows, widowers and divorced are welcome.  All ages are welcome.  For information, call Barbara at (860) 635-5870.  Come join us!

 

Note: In order to have a good group it is necessary for everyone to indicate activities that they would like to participate in.  With that in mind I ask each of you to let me know what you would like to do.  Give me your ideas, and be willing to actively participate.  Barbara  (860) 635-5870

 

Activities:

MIDDLETOWN SINGLES/SINGLE AGAIN CALENDAR DETAILS & COMING ATTRACTIONS

Will be updated shortly

 

COMING ATTRACTIONS:

 

Will be updated shortly

 

 

 

 

 

New London Singles Network

“CHRISTIAN SINGLES OF SOUTHEASTERN CONNECTICUT - The Monthly Meeting is the second Thursday of the month at 6:30 PM at Our Lady of Lourdes Parish - Gales Ferry.  Anyone in any part of the diocese (Vernon, Middletown, etc.) is welcome to attend any of our activities.  President - Judy Beatrice, Treasurer - Rita Izbicki 

For information, activities or membership contact: Judy Beatrice, 860-449-0077

 

If you would like to become a member of Christian Singles of SE Ct., write a check for $6.00 (Dues for the rest of the year.)  This money is used for postage for mailings of the monthly newsletter.  Please make check out to: Rita Izbicki, and mail to 51 Norman Drive, Gales Ferry, Ct.  06335  

 

 

If you have any ideas for upcoming events, please call Judy at 449-0077. Or better yet, come to a meeting and bring your ideas with you. Many may choose to go for a bite to eat after the meeting.

 

Keep watching this site for updates!

 

Putnam Singles Network

PUTNAM DEANERY - Contact Mary McMahon at 860-928-5750 for more information.

 

Vernon Singles Network

VERNON DEANERY -

Are you a single adult - never married, widowed, divorced - who might like to participate in social opportunities without the pressures of dating?  Talk with Sean at the Office of Family Life at 860-889-8346, ext. 285 All faiths are welcome. The Vernon Deanery consists of, but not limited to: Vernon/Rockville, Ellington, Bolton, Tolland, Somers, Stafford Springs and Willington.

 

Windham Christian Singles & Single Again (“Spirited Singles”)

WILLIMANTIC DEANERY

Welcomes singles and singles-again, divorced and widows.  Cafe Downtown gatherings every 2nd Monday of the month to help plan future activities (If you are unable to attend, call Linda at 450-1803 with your ideas.)  Social Meetings are the third Wednesday of the month at 7:00 PM downstairs in the Parish Hall at St. Joseph's Church, 99 Jackson St., Willimantic.  For more information on meetings and activities, contact Martha at 860-455-9451 or Janet at (860) 423-6053. 

 

 

EVERY Friday: 6:30 PM

Bingo at St. Joseph's Hall

Downstairs in the parish hall, St. Joseph's Church, 99 Jackson St., Willimantic.

 

3rd Wednesday of the Month  7:00 PM Monthly Social Night.

Downstairs in the Parish Hall at St. Joseph's Church, 99 Jackson St., Willimantic.

  

 

 

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Office of Family Life – Parenting Education

Seminar: Parenting in the 2000’s

Mr. Seb Liseo offers seminars to parents emphasizing the challenges of parenting children today, In his presentations, he includes many of the ideas presented in his recently published book of family, educational and societal issues. Mr. Liseo holds advanced degrees from Wesleyan and Central Connecticut State Universities and has twenty-seven years of experience in teaching and counseling in Connecticut public schools at both the junior and senior high school levels. Mr. Liseo not only examines current issues that affect today’s children and their parents. He also makes concrete, practical suggestions that can help parents be more “thought full” and effective by upgrading their skills to counter the influences of the “Third Parent”, the modern media in the home. Other challenges that parents must consider include social mores and the effect of current school practices and legislation at all levels. Gain more insights, be inspired and be encouraged in your parenting challenges! Contact the Office of Family Life for more information.

Mr. Liseo’s valuable book, My Child the Stranger: Parenting in the 2000’s is available directly by mail. It is “a survival guide for parents, educators and legislators.” $10 per copy plus 6% sales tax. Shipping is $1 for the first copy and 50 cents for each additional copy.

Parenting Education is provided in conjunction with the Pregnancy Services of Catholic Charities.

A wide array of services to women and families are available through Pregnancy Services which also include:

·         Prenatal classes for mothers and fathers-to-be

·         Free pregnancy testing

·         Infant layettes

·         Birth parent counseling for mothers/fathers considering an adoption plan.

 

Contact: Yamila Diaz 860-889-8346, x273

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Office of Family Life – Family Life Education Workshop

Chastity Program - True Love Waits

TRUE LOVE WAITS is a national program for high school students about love, sexuality, chastity and commitment. It is available by arrangement throughout the diocese. Participants learn that refraining from sexual intimacy outside of sacramental marriage is truly the most loving and live-giving choice. The course is consistent with Catholic Church teaching and is made up of three, two-hour seminars and a Mass during which participants have an opportunity to make a commitment to God to follow His ways in regard to their sexuality. There is a $3 charge to cover refreshment costs.  Call to register for one of the True Love Waits programs listed below. An adapted version of this program designed for 6th-8th grade students is also available.  (860) 889-8346, ext 285.

Did you know that while OVERALL teen pregnancy rates are going DOWN, those teens who are sexually-active still have dramatically HIGHER birth rates.  The Consortium of State Physicians Resource Council reported in 1999 that the overall reduction in teen pregnancy is due to abstinence, not increased contraceptive use!  Dr. John Diggs, spokesman of The Consortium of State Physicians Resource Council noted: "The findings of our report show that the safe sex approach to teen sexuality is a failure and not at all safe."

Learning to be chaste (exercising self-control over one’s sexual drive) is crucial to becoming a responsible and loving adult. It is part of God’s loving plan through Jesus Christ, empowered by His Holy Spirit. True Love Waits teaches and supports God's loving plan.

 

 

Call us for information today!  860-889-8346, ext. 285.

Future training is also available for potential program facilitators and assistants.  Please contact Kate and Jim Leonard through this Office of Family Life if you might be interested in serving our youth and community in this exemplary way.

Long-Term Care: Issues and Answers

This is a workshop for senior citizens and caregivers on maintaining independence at home, local and long-term care costs, risks and choices, Medicare and Medicaid options and limitations, advantages and disadvantages of long-term insurance, as well as adult children and caregivers' options.  As most families have more and more older adults in need of some assistance in living, long-term care planning and information on insurance issues are valued by family members.  Offered at no charge to your parish community.

Ct. Advance Directive & Living Wills

An Advanced Directive is more effective than a Living Will to make sure that  one's wishes are followed in the event that you are unconscious or unable to make your own medical decisions. It is a legal document that states one's wishes whether to be kept alive by artificial life support systems in the event of terminal illness or permanent coma.  "Living" Wills are called "Living" because, unlike testament wills, it takes effect before your death.  Since food and water are now legally interpreted as medical interventions, it is sometimes the case that patients are legally starved or over-medicated to death to reduce insurance costs or for other reasons.  You need to have an Advance Directive that states your convictions in the dignity and preciousness of life.

Information and forms for a Connecticut Advanced Directive are available:

 

If you don't already have Adobe Acrobat reader, you need to download it first from: www.partnershipforcaring.org/Advance/documents_content.html#4 

 

Information and forms can then be printed from the following link: www.partnershipforcaring.org/Advance/adconfirm.php#ct

or can be requested directly as a resource packet from the Office of Family Life (860) 889-8346, ext. 285.

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Office of Family Life – Post Abortion Reconciliation and Counseling Services (Project Rachel)

Project Rachel

Project Rachel is a program to help those who have experienced abortion. IS THERE AN ABORTION IN YOUR PAST? Project Rachel is a program to help you receive God's grace. By simply calling the Project Rachel telephone number, you will be put in touch with a trained person from Catholic Charities. This program is private and confidential.

Call us at Project Rachel because your Church cares and wants to help you. 860-889-8307 or 1-800-554-5173 (in Connecticut only) Sponsored by the Diocese of Norwich.

 

The Project Rachel National Website is: www.hopeafterabortion.com

 

 

FEELING SAD ABOUT AN ABORTION?

Two out of every five women you know who are older than 20 have had an abortion. Over 17 million women may suffer many or all symptoms of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, as well as other physical and psychological harms, as a direct result of their abortions (Source: The Elliott Institute).

The more that women talk openly about their grief and hurts from their abortions, the more others can feel safe in speaking up and finding the healing they deserve.

"Operation Outcry: Silent No More" is tens of thousands of women nationwide who are healing from the physical, emotional and spiritual damage of abortion. You can too. Thousands have spoken up publicly since January 2003 of their regret.

CONFIDENTIAL support is available from many abortion recovery groups nationwide, including 13 in Connecticut such as "Rachel’s Vineyard" Healing Retreats (1-877-HOPE-4-ME).

For too long we have been silent – but no more.

CALL CONFIDENTIALLY: 1-800-395-HELP, 1-866-482-LIFE, or IN CONNECTICUT, Annie Banno, E-mail: smok22@charter.net

God loves you, you know. And He’ll help, if you ask.

Rachel's Vineyard Retreats

Retreats are held in Southern New England on weekends for any person who has struggled with the emotional or spiritual pain of an abortion.  The retreat is a very specific process designed to help you experience the mercy and compassion of God.  The retreat concludes with a Memorial Service and Mass of Resurrection.

If you or a friend are hurting from an abortion, please call the Toll-free National Hotline: 887-HOPE-4-me.

 

For information or registration, please call Mary Hayden, 203-882-1326.  The fee for the weekend is about $100 and covers accommodations, meals and retreat materials.  Financial assistance is available.


Rachel's Vineyard – Litchfield, Ct.

June 1-3

November 2-4

Hosted by the Archdiocese of Hartford
Contact: Mary Hayden 203 882 1326

 

Rachel's Vineyard - Willimantic, Ct.
Contact: Mary Hayden 203 882 1326

Rachel's Vineyard – Fairfield County, Ct.

Hosted by the Diocese of Bridgeport
Contact: Clarissa Cincotta 203 218 0291

Rachel's Vineyard – Fairfield County, Ct. (Spanish – Español)

Contact: Rachel Torres O’Leary 203 313 0101

 

 

Rachel's Vineyard – North Providence, R.I.

Hosted by Rachel Vineyard Retreats of Southern New England:

Contact: Gail Picard at 401-447-3279 or Sheila Kuzmic 401-348-8874 or Joan Pendergast 401-861-2069
Contact: Sheila Kuzmic 401 348 8874 or Joan Pendergast 401-861-2069 or Gail Picard 401-447-3279

 

 

Rachel's Vineyard – Providence, R.I.

Hosted by Providence Office of Family Life:

Contact: Donna Warner 401 421 7833 ext 115 days / 401 785 9625 evenings

 

 

FOR MORE INFORMATION AND RETREAT DATES, CALL THE NATIONAL HOTLINE, OR VISIT: http://www.rachelsvineyard.org/ Or write: Rachels' Vineyard Ministries, P.O. Box 195, Bridgeport, Pa. 19405-0195

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Office of Family Life – Information and Referrals

Catholic Charities
Office of Family Life
331 Main Street
Norwich, CT 06360-5836

Vox: 860-889-8346, ext. 285. Fax: 860-889-2658
Web: http://www.ccfsn.org/ccfs/


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